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February 20th, 2017

2/20/2017

 
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My friend Sanatani drew this beautiful mandala, with inspiration from Satsang chanting.  She asked me to choose the colors of the art pencils, and then she began creating by hand on a blank piece of paper.  It was an amazing unfolding of design over a few days time - just beautiful!

I've been thinking quite a bit lately about this unconventional path I'm on and what it means to be "unconventional".  My Rotary friends back in Chicago call me their 'yogi', and yet I am a relative newcomer to the world of Yoga.  

Just on my small team of therapists and karma yogis in the Well Being Center at the Sivananda Ashram Yoga Retreat in the Bahamas, I learned that a few of them had parents who regularly practiced yoga, and so they were exposed to yoga from birth. Most on my team have been to India or Thailand or both - two places I have always considered to be exotic locales.  Yoga, India, Thailand, vegetarian diets, massage, healing therapies and meditation have been part of their familiar paths and are not in the least bit 'unconventional' to them.

My father rarely traveled by air for work, and yet my son and daughter travel frequently for their work.  If my father were still alive, he'd have considered their frequent travels, especially my daughter's as being very 'unconventional'.  Even for those of us with the same geographic and cultural norms, times have changed our routines.

Recently living in Thailand for 3 months was 'unconventional' for me.  It's not a typical vacation destination as it is a long journey for a Chicago, US born woman traveling by herself at the age of 63.   To live there for the sole purpose of writing a book is even more 'unconventional' for a first born, Type-A, perfectionist, high energy and self proclaimed workaholic.  It was productive and relaxing - an oxymoron to my old way of thinking.  I truly cannot recall in my lifetime doing much in a relaxed manner, especially if my goal was to be productive.  Even having fun was done in my 'full speed ahead' mode.

It has become clear to me that what is 'unconventional' to one person is typical and usual for others.  In the West, we often gauge 'normalcy and convention' by what we see on television and in the movies.  Yet Hollywood is not an authority nor a valid picture of everyday life.  The films and shows project 'someone's' life or a group of people's life, but certainly not a broad brushstroke of life for everyone.  Thank Goodness!

Even studies and research, which we in the West hold dear and deem so important, are merely depictions of a group of people in a certain set of circumstances, at a given time and for a predetermined period of time, with a researcher's predetermined goal in mind to prove or disprove.  

Keeping track of data is viewed as a validator. We take the results to be affirming of "truth", as though there is one truth. We also often discount the experiences of generations and generations of people who did not track results or who lived in a different geography, with a different culture than the one we know. Our current data, especially in the area of
neuro science is now affirming what yogis have known about meditation, relaxation, proper breathing and have practiced for thousands of years.

I do believe that there is one truth about God's existence and each of us being able to tap into God within us.  I have learned over my lifetime, however, that there are many truths about most things in life.  

However many perspectives exist are the number of variants of the truth that there can be.  The black and white views I once held are no longer valid.  What we grew up believing were truths based merely on agreements made up by mankind within our sphere of knowledge and learned from family, church, school, our community and the larger society.   Our geography and circumstances in life framed our 'truths'.

To me, whether labeled 'unconventional' or not, this spiritual path of healing and service is inline with my goal of being a happy, healthy and loving being.

Namaste
Thank you for taking this journey with me! 
Loving Life and Living Love,
Mary
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Inspiration - Be LOVE!

2/13/2017

 
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Namaste
Thank you for taking this journey with me! 
Loving Life and Living Love,
Mary

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Massage Yourself: The Art of Abhyanga

2/6/2017

 
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As I transition to managing the Well Being Center at the Sivananda Ashram Yoga Retreat,  our services include Ayurveda and other Healing Modality Treatments. Massage is daily on my mind here, as we provide Therapeutic Massages and Thai Yoga Massages. 
This Guest Blog was contributed by Jennie Hastings (SriDevi).  She is a past BestYOU contributor, and her advice is wonderful for all of us - virtually no cost, convenient and filled with love.


“The body of one who uses oil massage regularly does not become affected much even if subjected to accidental injuries, or strenuous work. By using oil massage daily, a person is endowed with pleasant touch, trimmed body parts and becomes strong, charming and least affected by old age”
Charaka Samhita Vol. 1, V: 88-89  (One of the great ancient texts of Ayurveda)

As a massage therapist or bodyworker you know the benefits of massage. You know massage helps flush toxins through the body, toning the lymph system and muscles, increasing feelings of relaxation and well-being, and decreasing stress and tension. You are an expert at helping people feel better in their bodies through the art of touch. You probably receive massage and bodywork from other therapists as a form of self care. But did you realize that you can massage yourself?

Perhaps this is a silly question. If you are anything like me you have a basket full of tools that help you work on yourself. I've spent tons of time digging into my forearms with my fingers, rolling around on a tennis ball or foam roller, or going at my rhomboids with a Theracane. This kind of self-massage was always a somewhat desperate attempt to mitigate the strain of over-working. I never thought about massaging myself unless I was already in pain.

It was only recently that I learned the art of self-massage and how a regular routine augments my life and keeps me out of pain. Self-massage, or Abhyanga as it is called in Ayurveda, is a form of self care that has been around since before humans got around to writing about it almost two thousand years ago. Abhyanga is oil massage that uses long strokes that move towards the heart, not unlike the Swedish technique most of us learned in school.

In Sanskrit, which is the original language of Ayurveda, the word for “oil” and the word for “love” are the same. The application of oil to a body then is the same as the application of love. Abhyanga describes a technique that can be given to another person, but mostly it refers to a massage given to oneself.

The major benefit of self-massage is that there are few obstacles to receiving one. There is no need to make an appointment, it is done in the convenience of your own home, and the length of the massage can be adapted to your schedule. There are lots of videos and articles online that describe how to do Abhyanga. I will share with you a way that works for me.

In the morning, before I take a shower, I put a plastic bottle filled with organic sunflower oil in a warm glass of water. When I get out of the shower I dry off and put some of the warm oil in the palms of my hands. With long strokes I apply the oil from my ankles to my hips, and from my wrists to my shoulders. I spend extra time around my knees and elbows. I apply the oil on my face and neck, helping the lymph flow down out of my head. I massage my abdomen in a clock-wise direction, then massage over my chest in a figure eight. I pay particular attention to the sides of my torso, drawing up from my hips towards my armpits. I sweep from the base of my head over my upper trapezius, giving myself extra attention in the places that need it. I use enough oil that I feel moisturized, and not too much that it stains my clothes when I put them on.

In the evening I might repeat the whole process, but if I don't, I always massage my feet. At the end of the day a foot massage is so relieving. There are so many nerve endings and reflexive points in the feet that, when massaged, soothe the entire body. I have a bottle of sesame oil with jatamansi essential oil in it that helps to warm my feet and ground my energy. After my foot massage I put on socks and go to bed. It helps me sleep and have good dreams.

One of the most helpful aspects of Abhyanga is self-love. Slowing down life enough to take the time to give yourself a thorough massage is nurturing on so many levels. It increases oxytocin, which in turn creates better thoughts, feelings, and relationships. Abhyanga is prescribed in Ayurveda to help with insomnia, scattered thoughts, and dryness of the tissues. It improves digestion. It helps the skin, the largest organ of the body, detoxify. There are other benefits too, some that can only be understood through experience.

I notice how some times I will rush through my Abhyanga with very little mindfulness. Just getting it done. And then I'll notice how good it feels to slow down, to feel the oil between my palms, to slowly sweep my hands over my body with attention and presence. When I'm really being mindful I repeat an affirmation in my mind while I massage myself.

Practicing Abhyanga regularly is extremely supportive to your health.You can use different oils depending on your constitution and the season and climate you are in. Sesame oil is good for the winter as it is warming and heavy. Coconut oil is better for the summer as it is cooling and lighter. Sunflower oil is a good general oil to use. Make sure to buy organic oil from the grocery store that you would eat. Anything you put on your skin is ingested into your body.

I was a massage therapist for more than a decade before I came to fully understand the amazing health benefits of massage. I gave thousands of hours of massage to other people and felt them transform through treatment plans that had them coming in once a week or sometimes even twice. But it was not until I began to massage myself, everyday, that I realized how profound massage truly is.

Thank you SriDevi Jennie for the insightful post and thank YOU for taking this journey with me!
For more from Jennie Hastings, check out 
http://inspiredmassagetherapist.com/

Namaste
Loving Life and Living Love,
Mary

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